Very often we try to make ourselves bigger by holding on to our opinion about what is right above all else, even when it clearly does not serve us to do so. For many of us, being ‘right’ has become equal to survival.What must be stressed here is that expressing one’s opinion and speaking one’s... Continue Reading →
‘Death is just the beginning.’ These were the last words of Imhotep in the 1999 movie The Mummy, just before he died at the very end of the movie. Why start this article with a quote from the end of a movie? Why do we think Death is the end? Why are we afraid of... Continue Reading →
‘Resistance is loyalty to the old and prevents development. Every expectation is thus linked to something already known. Only what shakes me to the core leads me onward…’Bert Hellinger Not that long ago I watched a Japanese movie where the main character was able to read people’s minds. This was a blessing and curse for... Continue Reading →
Facing and experiencing challenges are part of being a human. We can't control them. We can only control how we react to them. We can either allow them to destroy us or we can transfer the energy into something creative. I don't consider myself a poet but the following poem wanted to be expressed. :)... Continue Reading →
“We get hurt in relationships. And we heal in relationships.” We need human connection. We are wired to connect, and to be in community - to live in a community, rely on and support each other. We are feeling the best when we can help those who need it. Have you ever experienced that when... Continue Reading →
"Three things cannot long stay hidden: the sun, the moon and the truth."Buddha I let you in on a secret: When I write my posts I don’t really plan what I am going to write about and when. I have no schedule. I allow the space for anything that wants to come forward to come.... Continue Reading →
During my family constellations training a lot of focus was placed on the phenomenological aspect of the work. Meaning, we need to notice the sensations in our body, get in touch with our feelings, rather than trying to have a rational explanation of what's going on. Following a gentle nudging I've been feeling for a... Continue Reading →
Originally I wasn’t planning to post this month. For the past year I’ve posted something every month. When I decided to use this platform to share some of my thoughts I made a promise to myself that for a year I’ll share a post once a month. When the 12 months were over, I wasn’t... Continue Reading →
Empfinity Constellations 