Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart. Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens.Carl Jung
Welcome to Empfinity Constellations.
There is so much noise around us that often we don’t even know ourselves what we really want. We lose direction, we feel stuck, we want a change but don’t know how to make it happen, and if the change happens we feel anxious and worry how we are going to cope. We lose connection with ourselves and with our environment.
Empathy and Compassion are your companions – guides, that help you to Reconnect with yourself to unlock the door to your Infinite possibilities and a more fulfilled life.
Find your inner compass to build the bridges that connect us and start the healing process. Rebalance your energies.
Every situation, every step we make offers us a unique opportunity to grow and learn how to be resilient towards the changes that life sends
in our way. I believe we have an ‘inner compass’ that is guiding us. Every one of us has the strength within to change and transform and cope with the outer circumstances by staying centred. Transformation comes from within.
My vision is to create a community where people feel connected, seen, heard, understood and that they belong – in relation to others and also within themselves. We acknowledge and accept our wounds (even trans-generational ones) and obstacles that are keeping us apart from feeling connected, seen, heard, understood and to belong. Through compassion and unconditional love we create a community where we accept that it is OK not to be OK all the time. We are able to ask for, give and receive a supportive hand when it is needed. We put judgement aside.
Just like the individual stars create wonderful constellations on the night sky without even acknowledging their own uniqueness – we TOGETHER create communities where each one of us makes a unique a contribution. We all have a place where we belong.
I help people to work through their obstacles, discover and tap into their inner resources. I help them to reveal the hidden dynamics that influence their current issues and relationships. I do this by creating a safe place, through compassion and connection. I work with:
Family constellations (Systemic Constellations) – helps you to identify the dynamics that influence issues and relationships and helps to find sustainable steps for long-term change.
Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) – helps with emotional, performance, and physical issues. It is a form of counselling intervention that draws on various theories on alternative medicine including acupuncture, neuro-linguistic programming, energy medicine, Thought Field Therapy.
Therapeutic & Systemic coaching – draws from various methods and theories to help you accept, process, and find a way to help you.
Find Your Inner Compass
‘We all have the best guides within us.’ (Jane Austin)
But for being able to reconnect with this guide we need to acknowledge our own wounds and also the wounds of our ancestors. When we give space to them by acknowledging them then we start working on releasing them. We have all the answers we are looking for. As we start taking care of our wounds and pain, we become more and more connected with our true self. Only ‘hurt people hurt people’. Find your inner compass towards releasing and healing your own pain.
Building Bridges and Healing Hearts
With our newly found compass we can start exploring new territories of self love, selfcare and that will eventually lead to building bridges not just with the restored parts of ours but also with others. We start seeing ourselves not as a separate ‘entity’ from others, but someone who is connected to them.
We build bridges between me, myself, you, us and them. We see ourselves in others, and that’s when deep healing can take place. As an age old saying goes:
‘We are hurt in relationship, we are healed in relationship.’
I believe when we acknowledge what is and find peace with it, we can choose different behaviours and strategies that support us. This freedom of choice helps us truly connect with our resources and find our own way to help ourselves.
As a direct result, we will be better resourced to the changes in the outside world. We will be more resilient and connected.
I work relationally which means that in our sessions you are encouraged to explore and understand how early experiences, past relationships, even your family’s history impact your present difficulties, all whilst I am holding a safe place for you and support you along the way.
Seeing the hidden dynamics and loyalties that can hold the clients back, is offering them a resource for creating space for the next step. It brings me joy when I see people I work with feeling heard, seen, understood and to belong. Having worked across different industries with people from various backgrounds, I experienced how important it is helping people to see their potential & possibilities for taking the next step. I believe that when we acknowledge our place in the system we are part of , it brings along enormous energies that create changes. This is what’s guiding me in my work.
In my work I integrate key principles of EFT, Family (Systemic) Constellations, NLP, Hypnotherapy, Life Coaching, Mindfulness, developmental psychology. I help you to learn about what you’re feeling, why you might be feeling it, and how to cope and how to apply your newly found skills in the future.
Transformation happens from within. In order to reconnect with your own resources we’ll work with 5 areas, which I named the 5 Concepts of Transformation. They are like a quick aid to help you snap out of the auto-pilot mode. I work with these areas interchangeably depending on your needs and intentions.
Where attention goes, energy flows.
I can help with:
|addiction||divorce and separation||personal development|
|anxiety and fear||guilt and shame||phobias|
|body image||health related||relationships difficulties|
(romantic, family, professional…)
|career/work related issues||incest and violence||secrets|
|changing habits||inner critic, inner child difficulties||self image|
|communication skills||life purpose/life path||self-sabotage|
|confusion (depression)||loneliness and isolation||spirituality|
|creative blocks||low mood||stress management|
|cultural issues (cross-cultural relationship)||low self-confidence||trauma|
|death and loss||low self-esteem||weight management|
|difficult early experiences (childhood)||major life changes|
Beacon of the Guiding Light
Seeing the hidden dynamics and loyalties that can hold the clients back, is offering them a resource for creating space for the next step. It brings me joy when I see people I work with feeling heard, seen, understood and to belong. Having worked across different industries with people from various backgrounds, I experienced how important it is helping people to see their potential & possibilities for taking the next step. I believe that when we acknowledge our place in the system we are part of, it brings along enormous energies that create changes. This is what’s guiding me in my work.
TRUST that all is going to work for you.